![Illustration of a family in a car and postcards](https://ca-times.brightspotcdn.com/dims4/default/6c0a1fd/2147483647/strip/true/crop/1080x1080+0+270/resize/1000x1000!/quality/75/?url=https%3A%2F%2Fcalifornia-times-brightspot.s3.amazonaws.com%2F5d%2Fab%2F1deb58384778bf2e65eaa6be2cf8%2Fcover.jpg)
(Julio Salgado / For De Los)
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Holidays with your immigrant families don’t have to be stressful anymore. That is, if you’re willing to stray away from tradition just a tiny bit and start your own way of celebrating.
![Oh the holidays! A chance for family gatherings, delicious food and old family drama](https://ca-times.brightspotcdn.com/dims4/default/579c17f/2147483647/strip/true/crop/3600x3600+0+0/resize/2000x2000!/quality/75/?url=https%3A%2F%2Fcalifornia-times-brightspot.s3.amazonaws.com%2F2e%2F02%2Ffb331b7c4508ad2169463bff3ead%2Fdelos6-panel1.jpg)
![Once we moved to the U.S. our passports expired - only family members with visas were able to visit us](https://ca-times.brightspotcdn.com/dims4/default/260956b/2147483647/strip/true/crop/3600x3600+0+0/resize/2000x2000!/quality/75/?url=https%3A%2F%2Fcalifornia-times-brightspot.s3.amazonaws.com%2F79%2Fa6%2F1179021548e192c4806964644410%2Fdelos6-panel2.jpg)
![When family would visit us in the U.S., it meant a bunch of cousins, aunts and uncles packed in our one-bedroom](https://ca-times.brightspotcdn.com/dims4/default/7086510/2147483647/strip/true/crop/3600x3600+0+0/resize/2000x2000!/quality/75/?url=https%3A%2F%2Fcalifornia-times-brightspot.s3.amazonaws.com%2F08%2F79%2Fea50a0e14a3ba28558f83f91cdaf%2Fdelos6-panel3.jpg)
![When I was a kid I loved it, but as I got older, I knew that these lovely visits created some parental stress.](https://ca-times.brightspotcdn.com/dims4/default/f673839/2147483647/strip/true/crop/3600x3600+0+0/resize/2000x2000!/quality/75/?url=https%3A%2F%2Fcalifornia-times-brightspot.s3.amazonaws.com%2F60%2F07%2Fed509e9342ed9afdd67a98254693%2Fdelos6-panel4.jpg)
![I always wished we were the ones traveling somewhere during the holidays](https://ca-times.brightspotcdn.com/dims4/default/4da8e93/2147483647/strip/true/crop/3600x3600+0+0/resize/2000x2000!/quality/75/?url=https%3A%2F%2Fcalifornia-times-brightspot.s3.amazonaws.com%2F65%2Faf%2F185492aa42f9af7a5a526470cbda%2Fdelos6-panel5.jpg)
![But like most immigrant families living paycheck to paycheck, family vacations didn't happen](https://ca-times.brightspotcdn.com/dims4/default/fb4d499/2147483647/strip/true/crop/3600x3600+0+0/resize/2000x2000!/quality/75/?url=https%3A%2F%2Fcalifornia-times-brightspot.s3.amazonaws.com%2F35%2Fcf%2F8321b96a46459616ab01ca88803d%2Fdelos6-panel6.jpg)
![When I finally moved away from home in my 20s, I was the one visiting my parents for the holidays](https://ca-times.brightspotcdn.com/dims4/default/5bb0148/2147483647/strip/true/crop/3600x3600+0+0/resize/2000x2000!/quality/75/?url=https%3A%2F%2Fcalifornia-times-brightspot.s3.amazonaws.com%2F12%2F47%2F74cfc1274c2688fb7601452b6d24%2Fdelos6-panel7.jpg)
![Once I started making a little more coins I started a new tradition with the whole family: an annual road trip!](https://ca-times.brightspotcdn.com/dims4/default/307f015/2147483647/strip/true/crop/3600x3600+0+0/resize/2000x2000!/quality/75/?url=https%3A%2F%2Fcalifornia-times-brightspot.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fcc%2F96%2Fa74435c3441faa93f4ebb910b108%2Fdelos6-panel8.jpg)
![Because we're still undocumented we keep these holiday family trips to just California](https://ca-times.brightspotcdn.com/dims4/default/1ca612c/2147483647/strip/true/crop/3600x3600+0+0/resize/2000x2000!/quality/75/?url=https%3A%2F%2Fcalifornia-times-brightspot.s3.amazonaws.com%2Ff4%2F73%2F125638e14b778cbc63395086d7d6%2Fdelos6-panel9.jpg)
![I hope one day I can take my parents on a vacation to Mexico. For now we have a tradition that doesn't involve a green card!](https://ca-times.brightspotcdn.com/dims4/default/3ab3c2d/2147483647/strip/true/crop/3600x3600+0+0/resize/2000x2000!/quality/75/?url=https%3A%2F%2Fcalifornia-times-brightspot.s3.amazonaws.com%2F5c%2F29%2F469ab423491dafcd91e1683942b0%2Fdelos6-panel10.jpg)
Julio Salgado (@juliosalgado83) is a digital illustrator based in Long Beach.
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